About Me
I don't even know where to start because my life has been a wild ride full of different experiences.
Right now, I'm sitting by the beach, in my favorite comfy sarong and bikini, just watching the sunset over the turquoise ocean. It's a bit like a movie scene, where you can see the waves of life's stories, both good and tough.
Imagine yourself right here, on the beach with me…
The sun's last colorful rays warm you as a warm breeze brushes across your skin. It's a scene that's not just pleasurable, but with the lapping waves, a reflection of life's ups and downs similar to my story.
My journey began with a big push.
Three experiences of sexual trauma left me confused, frustrated, and wanting to understand pleasure and intimacy. I knew I craved physical connection with a partner but these experiences had left me feeling hopeless.
It was like standing at the edge of a big dark ocean, with so many questions and conflicting emotions...
For fifteen years, I was a passionate yogi, and spent the last ten years as a yoga teacher and teacher trainer. I learned a lot from studying ancient practices like Taoism and Tantra, which had big impacts on modern day yoga AND sexual expression. I learned how those ancient teachings connected to our present day understanding of anatomy, mobility, and biomechanics.
It was like connecting the dots between old teachings and modern science, something I realized I needed to share!
But here's the funniest part…
Even though I had all this knowledge, I was nervous to actually talk about "sex."
Why?
Let's face it, I was too chicken to bring it up.
I could teach about the pelvic floor, about anatomy, about energy… but I was still too nervous to actually talk about sex.
Fast forward to pandemic times- something in me clicked. I realized it was time to get out of my own way and step into the role of a sex coach. No more hiding.
I knew that my own story had some unexpected twists that others would relate to. My first sexual experience didn't happen until I was 20, and married quite young because of my ultra conservative upbringing (we divorced young too, no surprise I’m sure).
For over a decade, I struggled to figure out how to have an orgasm. They always seemed to appear then disappear out of nowhere. I could never predict them or understand why they stopped.
But here's where the adventure takes a pleasurable turn…
My quest led me on a journey to unlock the mysteries of pleasure and intimacy. The rewards were beyond what I had imagined, and I ended up having the most mind-blowing sex of my life. Yes, you heard me right – mind-blowing. I could even say, without exageration, life changing.
I finally understood the joys of being close and connected with my own body which led me to access deeper pleasure and intimacy with my partners. It was like finding a hidden treasure that had been there the whole time.
This journey to feeling good in my body has brought big changes. Feeling more connected to my body has made me more confident and happy, in and out of the bedroom, and l know you can experience the same.
Today, I reside in a Surf Village in Southeast Asia, where the waves and I have a deep, intimate connection, especially around sunset time. I live a life filled with pleasure and connection, and I wouldn't trade it for anything.
I'm living proof that learning to allow yourself to experience pleasure in your own body can completely change your life. From relationships to work life, it has empowered me in ways I never imagined possible.
So…
Are YOU ready to start the journey of understanding yourself, feeling deeply connected to pleasure and your authentic self?
Imagine a life with epic intimacy and deep pleasure…